When you are considering taking a loved one to a memory care community, there are several things that you need to keep in mind. First, this will likely be a difficult transition for your loved one to make. The second aspect of such a move is that there will be lots of adjustments t be made. This is not just for your loved one but also for everyone involved who has to get used to not having a family member around. For this reason, it is important to ensure a smooth transition and that you are all psychologically prepared. For this reason, here are some significant considerations when preparing your loved one for a transition to memory care.
Prepare Them Psychologically
At this point, it is important for your loved one to understand the need for a memory care program. While this grasp may vary depending on their memory state, it is important that the transition to a memory care program should not cause a surprise to them. You will need to have a conversation about what the memory care program seeks to achieve and what will be involved. In turn, you need to have a firm understanding of what the process involves. This information can be gleaned from the memory care community, who are always happy to share all the relevant information.
Ideally, your loved one should understand exactly what will happen and why this is important for them. This acceptance makes it easier to transit to a memory care community with minimal issues.
Get The Right Community
You should always ensure you get the right memory care community for your loved one. The definition of what is ‘right’ will vary immensely depending on the needs and circumstances of your loved one. Some families opt to have their loved ones nearby so that they can visit them as often as possible. For other families, the comfort of their loved ones is paramount. So, for example, if a loved one does better in warm coastal climates, they may choose a memory care community with just that kind of climate. Of course, there will be issues regarding what amenities are available, floor plans, whether pets are allowed, and so on. Although this is not always possible, it is a great idea to involve your loved one in the search for the right community. This ensures that they buy into the place, making it easier for them to settle down.
Help Them Pack
What your loved ones take with them can play a huge role in making the transition as smooth as possible. You should help them prepare for this by ensuring they carry items that will help them settle in quickly. These include family photographs, treasured paintings, and so on. You must ensure that any high-cost items, such as jewelry, are kept safe. Memory care communities allow residents to decorate their apartments in whatever way they see fit. If your loved one needs help doing this, you should help them to ensure they feel at home.
