If you’re a grandparent, it’s likely that the thought of a loved one who has dementia is troubling. It’s a difficult topic to talk about, but there are ways to make the conversation easier and more comfortable. In this guide, we’ll look at some tips for explaining dementia to kids or other family members interested in learning more about this important topic.
Pick A Time That Seems Right
Pick a time when you are in a good mood. It’s not just because it will be easier on your grandkids if they see you in a good mood, but also because it will make it easier for you. If you feel rushed or stressed out, that’s going to come through and make the conversation more difficult for everyone involved.
Similarly, wait until the kids are focused on something else; if they’re playing with toys or being noisy and rambunctious, they won’t be able to focus on what you’re saying. Choose one of those moments instead when they seem relaxed and happy—and then use that as an opportunity to talk about how their grandparents are doing!
Explain That Dementia Is Not Contagious
You should first tell them that dementia is not contagious and it’s okay to hug and kiss your grandparent. It’s important they understand this because they may be worried about catching the disease themselves.
You can explain that dementia is a disease of the brain—the brain cells stop working correctly or are damaged somehow. This means that your grandpa might have trouble speaking or remembering things sometimes, but he will still be himself inside his mind.
Dementia is a disease of the brain that causes changes in thinking, remembering, and reasoning. The changes are usually mild at first but get worse over time. Eventually, people with dementia can’t do many things for themselves anymore and may need help with eating, dressing, and bathing. They also often feel confused or depressed because they cannot communicate well with others.
But dementia doesn’t cause death like other diseases; it’s a progressive illness that gets worse over time but does not lead to an early death for most people with dementia (though some rare types can).
Be Honest About Your Fears
You might be nervous about telling your grandchildren the truth, but don’t worry—they’ll understand. The most important thing is that they know that you love them and are there for them. When you’re honest with them, they’ll be able to open up and talk to you more easily.
You also have to remember that as much as this isn’t going to be easy for anyone involved, it’s especially hard on kids who see their grandparent struggling. If your child has a lot of questions or seems upset by what’s happening, take some time before explaining so that she can get ready for what’s ahead, and keep an eye out for any other signs of stress in her behavior (like bedwetting).
Be Ready To Answer Questions
When your grandchild asks you a question, answer it as honestly and openly as you can. If you don’t know the answer, be honest about that too. Remember: You are not responsible for having all the answers—but if they want to know more about their grandparent’s condition and how it is affecting their life and decisions, that’s okay!
Conclusion
We hope that you find these tips helpful. Remember, there is no right or wrong way to talk to your grandkids about dementia, but there are some things that you can do to make it easier for everyone involved. The best way to help your grandkids understand dementia is by having an open, honest conversation.
